Here a TBT shot for ya. About l6 years ago I was asked by a photographer if I would pose for a book CALLED Real Men that he was shooting. This was the first sexy book I was ever in. I didn’t really know what I was doing. I told him I wasn’t comfortable being naked so he asked if i would be willing to wear a jockstrap. I had never been photographed in a jockstrap. I was nervous Ans when I’m nervous i smile a lot. It turned out that I was the ONLY person in the whole book who was smiling lol. I know it looks so silly grinning like an idiot in a jockstrap. But it turns out many guys like guys who smile because they also turned that picture into a print that the photographer told was the best selling one. It turns out our own idea of what we think is sexy on us isn’t always the same for other other people. So just in general smile more . That’s my advice :) Read more