Start like a fluttering butterfly Finish like a bulldog eating a bowl of oatmeal 2 Soft not hard Guys tend to go at it too hard I guess in the theory that pressure is more exciting or because that s how they like it on their cock Hard licks or sucking doesn t feel good to me it gets into overstimulation and even pain Light flickers alternating with very gentle sweeps or circles that s the ticket Also making sure that the woman is comfortable both physically and emotionally Let her lie on her back tell her how beautiful and hot her pussy is Spend time kissing her and looking her in the eyes before going down Touch her other places when you re down there I like a guy to caress my thighs reach down to gently spread my knees apart further very erotic occasionally reach up to touch and squeeze my breasts Murmur and smile occasionally to reassure her you like it and aren t grossed out by her If you ve got the look and demeanor of martyrdom no one s going to have any fun 3 If she says Don t stop DO NOT STOP Start slow start up top Kiss her slowly then firmly but like you have all the time in the world Trail kisses from her mouth along her jaw to her ear maybe take her earlobe in between your teeth Make your way along her neck kissing and licking at the sensitive spots behind her ear her pulse points in between her collarbones Move down slowly take your time at her breasts suck at her nipples touch and caress her boobs You can squeeze them gently unless she s into otherwise or gently bite her nipples if she s into that stuff but check first Detour back up to her lips and kiss her you want to get her aroused before you even get anywhere close to her lower lips Read more